Subject	That's not it George.
Posted by	Kenny on May 07, 2004 at 10:15 AM
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In Reply To	why allow someone else's mood swings cripple your life? (n/m) posted by ZEngineer on May 07, 2004 at 09:47 AM
Message	*done cringing @ the song?* A mood-swing to the low end of the spectrum is completely different from someone who is unhappy. Happiness is a sense of overall security, fulfillment, and love. Even someone is sad - they can still be "happy." As a husband your job is to ensure that (within reason) you do your best to help your wife be happy. WAR!! Kenny... PETZ Member #5 genic: 'it doesnt work..you changed something last night..and now it doesnt work' .. 'really? cause i didnt know i stay at work 24/7 and change stuff just to mess with you' .. 'well it doesnt work today' .. 'really? let me connect and see...hmm..so you cant do this *doing what she cant do* ..and this? *doing it again* ...wow, i must have really changed something' *click*
Follow Ups	Possible opportunity to buy my Z back >>>> - aspendog 08:58:40 05/07/04 well... - dpjax 09:01:59 05/07/04 $$$ for a new showroom, basically business - aspendog 09:05:03 05/07/04 I dont get this part: but the wife is not on board - ZEngineer 09:04:38 05/07/04 I guess you would need to be Happily married to understand (n/m) - aspendog 09:06:04 05/07/04 No doubt. You realize quickly when you get married >> - Greg (Dallas) 09:39:51 05/07/04 I agree..I'm just not ready for that sacrefice yet - ZEngineer 09:44:12 05/07/04 agreed. Good for you. (n/m) - Greg (Dallas) 09:51:51 05/07/04 It is not a sacrifice if it is done right. (n/m) - Guapo 09:54:59 05/07/04 You must put something down to pick something else up. (n/m) - Kenny 10:16:51 05/07/04 I disagree ... sacrificing something means giving up - Guapo 10:28:13 05/07/04 agreed... - Fuzznutz 10:58:38 05/07/04 No doubt. Good that you have that self-insight. - PA_Z 09:56:42 05/07/04 she's not the problem, I am - ZEngineer 09:59:07 05/07/04 Gotcha. (n/m) - PA_Z 10:32:59 05/07/04 Maybe she loves you !! - PLEAZURE in CA (SD) 17:41:10 05/07/04 Exactly. When you realize that you consider her - slowjohn 10:07:56 05/07/04 but John, they are NEVER happy! ;) (n/m) - ZEngineer 10:10:13 05/07/04 hmmm - aliaZ 10:18:03 05/07/04 100% correct sir... Been down that road. (n/m) - BlitZ95TT (AMZ Performance) 10:51:43 05/07/04 I guess I am just real lucky. It is the same with ones - slowjohn 12:25:02 05/07/04 I agree, unfortunately I have some sort of weird trigger - ZEngineer 09:41:21 05/07/04 You should stay single with that attitude. (n/m) - larryb 09:12:38 05/07/04 her happiness is tied to her involvement... - dpjax 09:18:45 05/07/04 That's what prenups are for. - Marshall 15:22:13 05/07/04 let me explain marriage for you in one sentence - TARGETZ 09:29:50 05/07/04 Preach on brutha. (n/m) - Greg (Dallas) 09:40:53 05/07/04 why allow someone else's mood swings cripple your life? (n/m) - ZEngineer 09:47:56 05/07/04 That's not it George. - Kenny 10:15:34 05/07/04 bastard! (n/m) - ZEngineer 10:18:33 05/07/04 "When Momma's not happy, NOBODY's happy." >>> - Mike (Austin) 09:58:10 05/07/04 omg, you guys are so whooped! - ZEngineer 10:06:04 05/07/04 Picture = 1000 words... - BigTDogg (MA) 11:40:01 05/07/04 that is great about the daughter, I have 2 boys >>> - aspendog 10:17:42 05/07/04 Happy wife... Happy life :) (n/m) - Steve-O 12:48:59 05/07/04 LOL, you'll never be married. (n/m) - Spee 17:07:35 05/07/04 Women making decisons for you!!....women only need to know - TWINTURBONICK 18:55:59 05/07/04 i say buy her back its a great z (n/m) - JDMz32smity 09:05:08 05/07/04 Explain to the wife the amount of time and money you put - ImTheDevil 09:05:41 05/07/04 See that's part of the problem, if she knew what was - aspendog 09:06:58 05/07/04 you can buy her back complete and cheaper - JDMz32smity 09:10:02 05/07/04 wong! Women dont understand that logic. - ZEngineer 09:08:10 05/07/04 Yeah...that approach rarely works - craZylegZ 09:15:13 05/07/04 I'm guessing you're single... ;-) (n/m) - PA_Z 09:30:54 05/07/04 no man, it's not like that... - ZEngineer 09:46:07 05/07/04 I'm just rippin' on ya. I'm fortunate that the wife likes - PA_Z 09:54:10 05/07/04 Re: no man, it's not like that... - spicyZ 13:26:02 05/07/04 Women are simple? You crack me up! (n/m) - Mike (Austin) 10:04:39 05/07/04 I think they are simple to understand honestly. - Kenny 11:10:41 05/07/04 You can alway use your other hand :) - ImTheDevil 11:35:02 05/07/04 You rang? (n/m) - shirow 14:56:17 05/07/04 Does she even know you're lookin'? Try the "invetstment" - danz300 09:55:31 05/07/04 Your Z was my background until I got the Koeinsegg :P - BigTDogg (MA) 10:12:03 05/07/04 that was so beautiful *tear* - ZEngineer 10:16:03 05/07/04 Just trying to give a third person perspective... - BigTDogg (MA) 10:30:17 05/07/04 Marriage is a partnership - Technomancer 11:11:30 05/07/04 good advice (n/m) - SuparexTT 15:54:47 05/07/04 If you decide to buy it back, I don't think you should pay - AztecTT 12:20:16 05/07/04 Your Z was one of a kind...you are lucky to have the - TheTwinZ (Peru) 12:37:47 05/07/04 Whats in it for her? Answer that and life is good. (n/m) - zzman (nashville) 12:57:52 05/07/04 dude, if your wife cares for you then she will understand>> - Plan Z 14:32:41 05/07/04 agreed. It's a 2 way street (n/m) - aliaZ 15:26:03 05/07/04 Wow, sounds like the wife doesn't really know you? - ZBlacktt 14:35:16 05/07/04 I like your perspective, but my wife does not really - aspendog 14:46:19 05/07/04 I hear you there, I have kids too. - ZBlacktt 15:14:47 05/07/04 Sorry ( phone rang ), lol. - ZBlacktt 15:48:32 05/07/04 thanks for the kind words. (n/m) - aspendog 16:57:31 05/07/04 Your car or one like it has been on ebay before... - SuparexTT 15:54:07 05/07/04 I sold my 92TT about 5 years ago when my wife and I were - 94Z32XTT 02:15:04 05/08/04
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